Uh...?

I've just finished watching "Bad Education" and it made me wonder several rerun wonders, the most prominent of which is, are there people who have been molested whose lives are not ruined or affected in any substantial way as a result? There must be. I'm not convinced that the characters who had been the objects of the priest in the movie led their lives in the way that they did because the priest had done what he did. Does that make sense? Everything that happens to us shapes us, but some things less than others. There must be people who are healthy enough, mentally and emotionally, who just shrug their shoulders and say, "whatever." Or have our societal "norms" conditioned us so deeply that it's not possible.